Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Well we had quite a day yesterday at the three oldest kids orphanages!!  The first orphanage that we went to was one that all 4 had been at, and they remembered a lot!  Inna really didn't remember too much, but seemed to remember one of the workers there, and she remembered Inna.  She said Inna was always singing, which she still does now.  Sergey remembered the most and I think for him it was if he had just stepped back all the years, and was like a little boy there.  He remembered exactly where his bed was at and his little locker.  Natalya and Victor remembered where they sat and had their meals etc.  Some of the same workers were still there and remembered them, and our kids remembered them as well.  

The director and the workers were very welcoming and we had tea with the director and two of the workers.  The worker who worked with Inna had tea with us and she shared how she remembered different things about the other 3 kids as well.  After tea we were given a tour of the facilities there.  Everything has been redone and everything was nicely painted and very neat.  The windows were new as well as the entrance.  The place was much improved.  We were able to see some of the older [that orphanage only has children 
up to age 7], having lunch, and then saw the younger ones laying down for their naps.  They were so cute, we wished we could take all of them home.  When we went in by the ones taking naps some of them looked at me and were asking, Mama?, Mama?  Is that sad of what.

Natalya had a hard time about 3/4 of the way through our visit.  They were asking questions about what each of the kids do, and I think she began to feel uncomfortable and started to cry.  Later we talked and she said she remembered the big fence and gate to come in and it made her remember how afraid she was.  The gate seemed much larger then, but the connection was there.  She also had some bad memories of a couple of the workers, who were mean to her.  Victor and Natalya showed us where they each slept when they were not allowed to come in for the night.

We stayed at least an 1 1/2 hrs.  The director said it was very encouraging to see and hear about children who have been adopted that are doing well and are happy.  Our visit was much appreciated, and they would love to have us come again.  Stephan, from YWAM did a great job translating and was able to share about the ministry and the dental truck.

The next orphanage was one that Sergey was at for quite a short time.  We thought it was about a year, but it was more like a few months.  They said he was already in the process of getting adopted.  That was a very good thing because these were older kids and some of them have certain mental or retardation issues.  I guess some of them are normal.  You could just see the harder looks and it was so sad.  The director there said that few children are ever adopted from there.  Population there 210!  The first one 70.  One worker here remembered Sergey and she remembered us getting him.  She remembered that Stan was a pastor and she remembered things about Laura.  We got a tour of the facility, and this place had also been fixed up.  It was a bit dreary and depressing here. We had another visit f or about 1 1/2 hrs.

We started out at 7:30 in the morning and got home around 8.  It was a long somewhat tiring, emotion packed day, with a number of questions and blanks answered.  Overall the kids were very happy they went, they did not regret it at all.  We asked them if they had any good memories and sadly they said none.  We are still doing a lot of talking together about it all and that has been good.  They did have a younger sister, but is no longer living.  Well, there is much more that I could write but this gives you an idea of our very big day! 

Laura has a very bad cold, mostly struggling with the cough.  Today we took everyone but Andrew out for a couple of hrs., so she could get some rest.  We had delicious borscht for lunch and the men and boys have all gone out to the property where they are doing the building.  Joey has a meeting there so Stan and the boys will hang out there.  

Thurs. we will go to Kareel's orphanage and it looks like CBN will go as well to follow up on Kareel's adoption.

Love to all,

Mary